My favorite place on earth , is a luxury log cabin on Mirror Lake. For years, I used to wait for someone special to come here with. But a couple of years ago, I realized that I AM that someone special. Since that moment, I make an annual pilgrimage here, and no, no one is allowed to join me. An expensive bottle of wine, a warm blanket, and a sunset all to myself.

How many of you are waiting for someone to join you in life? For someone to make a moment like this special? The truth is that no one can. What makes a place like this special, is your own self worth.

So, do you think you are worth a splurge on yourself? Do you think you are worth this luxury? Or are you afraid, of facing this alone? Many women argue, that they cannot justify such an expense, yet their closets are full of designer clothing, handbags and shoes they never wear. Most are waiting for a man to bring them to a place like this, thinking that it is the romance, or the relationship that will make this worthwhile.

Nothing could be further from the truth. It is my appreciation for myself, that has lead me to experience some of the most magical places on earth, all on my own. I relish these moments so much, that no man is worth the compromise. Before I allow someone to join me, I weigh carefully whether he is worth it.