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Independent Relationship Contractors

I am who I am with or without you. It is your choice to be or not be in my life, and I have the same choice to either be or not be dealing with you. With or without you … Continue reading

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Repeating Relationship Cycles Are Lessons Failed

Are you repeating endless cycles with the same people in your life? Or do you let go of one person, only for a new person to show up in your life who has you in the same repeating situation? I … Continue reading

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When Forgiveness is Toxic, and How Not to Forgive

“People who force themselves to forgive know no peace”, Chido, the EQ Detective. Have you ever been asked to forgive someone you weren’t ready to forgive? Have you ever been emotionally harassed or bullied to forgive someone whose actions feel … Continue reading

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Are Women Paying For Relationships With Sex?

Let me rephrase that a few times. Are you paying for an opportunity to eventually get into a healthy relationship with your body? Are you paying for a chance that the person you are sleeping with will offer you a … Continue reading

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Intentional Dating vs. Giving Chances to Random Men

This post is a follow up to several of my previous ones where I mentioned that I only date intentionally and promised to expand on that topic. I have shared it in the private Goddess chat several times to see … Continue reading

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The Value of a Woman’s Presence

Have you ever witnessed how much benefit men get from having your friendship, your mere presence in their lives? Have you ever felt uncomfortable with how they use your presence to boost their ego, shore up their masculinity or gain … Continue reading

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A Woman in Power

POWER. What is it? How do you know if you have power, or if you are truly a powerful woman. Power is a loaded word. It offends some people, especially when the word is used to refer to women. How … Continue reading

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The Patriarchy Cannot Survive If Women Are Fearless

The patriarchy cannot survive if women don’t fear being single. The patriarchy cannot survive if women don’t fear being child free. The patriarchy cannot survive if women don’t fear getting old. The patriarchy cannot survive if women don’t fear the … Continue reading

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Love Junkies and Man Crazy Women I’m Cutting Off

This one is bound to be a sensitive topic, as I am sure many women have been at the opposite end of this situation, in a position where they feel like they are being left behind by their girlfriends. It … Continue reading

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The Most Powerful Woman

There is nothing that you could say about me, to make me feel bad about me. People try, it never works. Their words bounce off me, and then they are right there in their own face. It’s a very powerful … Continue reading

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