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Silence is a NO

Silence is a NO. An unanswered question is a no. A changed subject is a no. And no always means no. This is not an invitation to start working on it to eventually get to a yes. No means no. … Continue reading

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How To Make Toxic People Hate You

The discomfort toxic people feel when you choose your peace, shows them they have no control over you. They were hoping you’d fall for their push and pull, they hoped they could get you to chase, but you didn’t. You … Continue reading

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I Make You Uncomfortable-I’m Okay With Your Discomfort

Do you make people uncomfortable? If you are a woman who respects herself, has invested in her growth, has succeeded at anything at all, gets more attention, chances are high that have ruffled some feathers. If you identify as a … Continue reading

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Do You Know How To Be Intimate?

What is intimacy? Have you felt it genuinely? How do we know when we have actual intimacy in a relationship? How often do women think they have intimacy when their partner doesn’t even know what that means? My theory about … Continue reading

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Independent Relationship Contractors

I am who I am with or without you. It is your choice to be or not be in my life, and I have the same choice to either be or not be dealing with you. With or without you … Continue reading

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Repeating Relationship Cycles Are Lessons Failed

Are you repeating endless cycles with the same people in your life? Or do you let go of one person, only for a new person to show up in your life who has you in the same repeating situation? I … Continue reading

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Intentional Dating vs. Giving Chances to Random Men

This post is a follow up to several of my previous ones where I mentioned that I only date intentionally and promised to expand on that topic. I have shared it in the private Goddess chat several times to see … Continue reading

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Cheating Is Emotional Abuse And A Form of Psychological Violence

Cheating is Abuse. How many of my readers think of cheating as a mistake, an accident, just a part of masculinity? Why do we believe that? Society, pressure and media tell us this, and some women buy into it. But … Continue reading

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Older Men, Past Expiration

Rarely will you see this point of view expressed in mainstream media. In fact, the coverage of every reputable news outlet, or women’s magazine, screams the opposite. They are usually about the plight of educated career women whose biological expiration … Continue reading

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